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		<title>By: How Industry Standard Fees Are Stealing Your Cash &#124; Rules Optional</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-122</link>
		<dc:creator>How Industry Standard Fees Are Stealing Your Cash &#124; Rules Optional</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 10:59:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] of all, as I&#8217;ve written before, stop calling yourself a freelancer or contractor. Freelance is a concept, not a title. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-121</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 22:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I almost tweeted &quot;If your blog subscription drops by 1, that&#039;s probably me unsubscribing&quot; for New Years. I unsub&#039;d from more than half of the blogs I was following. Fortunately, everyone who has commented on this post has a great blog.

The point you make about commenting and twitterizing things not itself being the problem is important. I wrote some of my sort-of-related thoughts on that in &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/rulesoptional.com\/blogging-is-a-ponzi-scheme-2\/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Blogging Is a Ponzi Scheme&lt;/a&gt;. I love the information and tools that are available. There&#039;s some great stuff out there. But... yeah... certain motives result in the propagation of less than stellar content.

Maybe I&#039;m just propagating the idea of bringing in new ideas from books because I don&#039;t have the bandwidth to process all that info. ...then hoping I&#039;ll find it on your blogs. Oooh! Stealth outsourcing via propaganda model. Get content you want to read generated by encouraging others to generate better content... Crowdoutsourcing? Trademarked. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I almost tweeted &quot;If your blog subscription drops by 1, that&#039;s probably me unsubscribing&quot; for New Years. I unsub&#039;d from more than half of the blogs I was following. Fortunately, everyone who has commented on this post has a great blog.</p>
<p>The point you make about commenting and twitterizing things not itself being the problem is important. I wrote some of my sort-of-related thoughts on that in <a href="http:\/\/rulesoptional.com\/blogging-is-a-ponzi-scheme-2\/" rel="nofollow">Blogging Is a Ponzi Scheme</a>. I love the information and tools that are available. There&#039;s some great stuff out there. But&#8230; yeah&#8230; certain motives result in the propagation of less than stellar content.</p>
<p>Maybe I&#039;m just propagating the idea of bringing in new ideas from books because I don&#039;t have the bandwidth to process all that info. &#8230;then hoping I&#039;ll find it on your blogs. Oooh! Stealth outsourcing via propaganda model. Get content you want to read generated by encouraging others to generate better content&#8230; Crowdoutsourcing? Trademarked. <img src='http://rulesoptional.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-120</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 20:46:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes! Writing is a great example. I kick myself every time I accidentally refer to myself as a blogger.

One big indicator of the problems with the formal education system is that even the teachers hate it. I&#039;m not even talking about the income level part of it. Teachers tend to be very critical of the methods they&#039;re required to employ. When there&#039;s recognition of failures that early in the process, how can the results be anything but compromised?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes! Writing is a great example. I kick myself every time I accidentally refer to myself as a blogger.</p>
<p>One big indicator of the problems with the formal education system is that even the teachers hate it. I&#039;m not even talking about the income level part of it. Teachers tend to be very critical of the methods they&#039;re required to employ. When there&#039;s recognition of failures that early in the process, how can the results be anything but compromised?</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-119</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 20:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally... Others&#039; perception of you is improved by changing the language, your own mindset improves, others&#039; perception of you improves by the external reflection of your improved mindset, which improves your mindset, which improves...

Whoa! I almost got stuck in an endless loop there for a second.

Great to hear from you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally&#8230; Others&#039; perception of you is improved by changing the language, your own mindset improves, others&#039; perception of you improves by the external reflection of your improved mindset, which improves your mindset, which improves&#8230;</p>
<p>Whoa! I almost got stuck in an endless loop there for a second.</p>
<p>Great to hear from you!</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-118</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 20:33:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks! You know I&#039;d be happy to give it a good home. I haven&#039;t purchased a copy of &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1887229280\?ie=UTF8&amp;amp\;tag=satotr-20&amp;amp\;linkCode=as2&amp;amp\;camp=1789&amp;amp\;creative=390957&amp;amp\;creativeASIN=1887229280&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Book of Gossage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=satotr-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1887229280&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border:none !important; margin:0px !important;&quot; /&gt; yet. It&#039;s one of those weird ones that&#039;s $50 new, but $70 used on Amazon. Did you ever get around to reading it? I commented on an AdAge blog post a while back that Goodby wrote. It was not a flattering comment. I did respect him a little more after discovering that he wrote a chapter in Gossage.

Congrats on the pitch success! I love that you&#039;ve joined the entrepreneur world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks! You know I&#039;d be happy to give it a good home. I haven&#039;t purchased a copy of <a href="http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1887229280\?ie=UTF8&amp;amp\;tag=satotr-20&amp;amp\;linkCode=as2&amp;amp\;camp=1789&amp;amp\;creative=390957&amp;amp\;creativeASIN=1887229280" rel="nofollow">The Book of Gossage</a>&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=satotr-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1887229280&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border:none !important; margin:0px !important;&quot; /&gt; yet. It&#039;s one of those weird ones that&#039;s $50 new, but $70 used on Amazon. Did you ever get around to reading it? I commented on an AdAge blog post a while back that Goodby wrote. It was not a flattering comment. I did respect him a little more after discovering that he wrote a chapter in Gossage.</p>
<p>Congrats on the pitch success! I love that you&#039;ve joined the entrepreneur world.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:53:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew, next time you come through Portland, my Gossage book is yours, unless you already purchased a copy for yourself.

Re: &quot;My Business&quot; After reading this post I will start using that. I&#039;m still trying to reprogram my mind after six years of being an employee/freelancer/contrater

Oh, and my business gave its first pitch yesterday. Killed it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew, next time you come through Portland, my Gossage book is yours, unless you already purchased a copy for yourself.</p>
<p>Re: &quot;My Business&quot; After reading this post I will start using that. I&#039;m still trying to reprogram my mind after six years of being an employee/freelancer/contrater</p>
<p>Oh, and my business gave its first pitch yesterday. Killed it.</p>
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		<title>By: Nate</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-115</link>
		<dc:creator>Nate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 15:06:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew - My favorite part of this post was the &#039;echo-chamber&#039; comment.  It could also be characterized as group think, couldn&#039;t it?  There is a huge proliferation of self-help, lifestyle design blogs out there and it seems that everyone reads and comments and twitters on everyone else&#039;s stuff.  Now, first, let me say that it&#039;s not a problem to do that...however, I think we would all do good not to get so caught up in what we are saying and think it&#039;s the right way.

When we&#039;re only exposing ourselves to the same ideas regurgitated in different ways and reading that day after day we become convinced that it&#039;s &#039;true reality.&#039;  This can cause great problems, in my opinion.  So, as you recommend, get out there and read other stuff.  Disconnect for awhile or maybe read stuff that has nothing to do with the niche you&#039;re in, but you&#039;re interested in.  And of course, always question your motives.  Are you doing something because you really want to truly do it or is it coming from some un-authentic place?
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FearlessEndeavors/~3/7kTldRoG7OY/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Why Are We So Miserable With Our Jobs?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew &#8211; My favorite part of this post was the &#039;echo-chamber&#039; comment.  It could also be characterized as group think, couldn&#039;t it?  There is a huge proliferation of self-help, lifestyle design blogs out there and it seems that everyone reads and comments and twitters on everyone else&#039;s stuff.  Now, first, let me say that it&#039;s not a problem to do that&#8230;however, I think we would all do good not to get so caught up in what we are saying and think it&#039;s the right way.</p>
<p>When we&#039;re only exposing ourselves to the same ideas regurgitated in different ways and reading that day after day we become convinced that it&#039;s &#039;true reality.&#039;  This can cause great problems, in my opinion.  So, as you recommend, get out there and read other stuff.  Disconnect for awhile or maybe read stuff that has nothing to do with the niche you&#039;re in, but you&#039;re interested in.  And of course, always question your motives.  Are you doing something because you really want to truly do it or is it coming from some un-authentic place?<br />
My recent post <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FearlessEndeavors/~3/7kTldRoG7OY/" rel="nofollow">Why Are We So Miserable With Our Jobs?</a></p>
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		<title>By: Nate</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-116</link>
		<dc:creator>Nate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 15:06:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew - My favorite part of this post was the &#039;echo-chamber&#039; comment.  It could also be characterized as group think, couldn&#039;t it?  There is a huge proliferation of self-help, lifestyle design blogs out there and it seems that everyone reads and comments and twitters on everyone else&#039;s stuff.  Now, first, let me say that it&#039;s not a problem to do that...however, I think we would all do good not to get so caught up in what we are saying and think it&#039;s the right way.

When we&#039;re only exposing ourselves to the same ideas regurgitated in different ways and reading that day after day we become convinced that it&#039;s &#039;true reality.&#039;  This can cause great problems, in my opinion.  So, as you recommend, get out there and read other stuff.  Disconnect for awhile or maybe read stuff that has nothing to do with the niche you&#039;re in, but you&#039;re interested in.  And of course, always question your motives.  Are you doing something because you really want to truly do it or is it coming from some un-authentic place?
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FearlessEndeavors/~3/7kTldRoG7OY/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Why Are We So Miserable With Our Jobs?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew &#8211; My favorite part of this post was the &#039;echo-chamber&#039; comment.  It could also be characterized as group think, couldn&#039;t it?  There is a huge proliferation of self-help, lifestyle design blogs out there and it seems that everyone reads and comments and twitters on everyone else&#039;s stuff.  Now, first, let me say that it&#039;s not a problem to do that&#8230;however, I think we would all do good not to get so caught up in what we are saying and think it&#039;s the right way.</p>
<p>When we&#039;re only exposing ourselves to the same ideas regurgitated in different ways and reading that day after day we become convinced that it&#039;s &#039;true reality.&#039;  This can cause great problems, in my opinion.  So, as you recommend, get out there and read other stuff.  Disconnect for awhile or maybe read stuff that has nothing to do with the niche you&#039;re in, but you&#039;re interested in.  And of course, always question your motives.  Are you doing something because you really want to truly do it or is it coming from some un-authentic place?<br />
My recent post <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FearlessEndeavors/~3/7kTldRoG7OY/" rel="nofollow">Why Are We So Miserable With Our Jobs?</a></p>
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		<title>By: Leigh Shulman</title>
		<link>http://rulesoptional.com/leveraging-failure-summary/#comment-114</link>
		<dc:creator>Leigh Shulman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 09:05:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this post! Yep, all true.

We are the way we present ourselves. For years I resisted calling myself a writer because I hadn&#039;t yet published. Funny thing, the minute I started telling people I&#039;m a writer, people began asking me to write for them. Funny little catch-22 there.

As for education. That&#039;s a tough one for me. I consider myself the eternal student and am also an educator (note: not a teacher).  I have never fit well in the American education system, because I do things differently. I tend to approach the classroom as a give and take. Students have as much to teach as instructors, and that giving a person the tools to learn for themselves is the greatest gift you can give.

I also very much appreciate your advice to look beyond the surface before deciding who to trust for advice and information. It is easy to fall back on standards such as position, title and supposed-experience as guidelines. Instead, you encourage people to think for themselves.

As it should be! Thanks for another great post, Andrew.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this post! Yep, all true.</p>
<p>We are the way we present ourselves. For years I resisted calling myself a writer because I hadn&#039;t yet published. Funny thing, the minute I started telling people I&#039;m a writer, people began asking me to write for them. Funny little catch-22 there.</p>
<p>As for education. That&#039;s a tough one for me. I consider myself the eternal student and am also an educator (note: not a teacher).  I have never fit well in the American education system, because I do things differently. I tend to approach the classroom as a give and take. Students have as much to teach as instructors, and that giving a person the tools to learn for themselves is the greatest gift you can give.</p>
<p>I also very much appreciate your advice to look beyond the surface before deciding who to trust for advice and information. It is easy to fall back on standards such as position, title and supposed-experience as guidelines. Instead, you encourage people to think for themselves.</p>
<p>As it should be! Thanks for another great post, Andrew.</p>
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		<title>By: NomadicNeil</title>
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		<dc:creator>NomadicNeil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 07:49:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I probably did as part of a course I took in the first year: &#039;Language in Communication&#039;. But obviously mostly from a linguistic angle.

The only name I can remember is Saussure who wrote about the &#039;signifier&#039; and the &#039;signified&#039; and how the signifier can be arbitrary and bear no relationship to the signified.
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.nomadicneil.com/blog/deep-stuff/new-years-values/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;New Year&#8217;s Values&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I probably did as part of a course I took in the first year: &#039;Language in Communication&#039;. But obviously mostly from a linguistic angle.</p>
<p>The only name I can remember is Saussure who wrote about the &#039;signifier&#039; and the &#039;signified&#039; and how the signifier can be arbitrary and bear no relationship to the signified.<br />
My recent post <a href="http://www.nomadicneil.com/blog/deep-stuff/new-years-values/" rel="nofollow">New Year&rsquo;s Values</a></p>
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